Bio: I am a recently widowed 51 year old leo very hairy sicilian jewish cross writer director producer with a second career in forensic psychology in nyc; very masculine; very bisexual; looking for larger built masculine men 45 - 55; like safe sane spanking play and other safe sex activiities; also looking for good friends/buddies/networking; nothing too heavy ; dramatic; no one too disturbed or on psychiatric meds; me alpha male looking for alpha male; me non judgemental kind class clown life of the party; hiv negative; very very healthy; have body of a 28 year old; powerful muscular legs slim torso; no wrinkles