Bio: I'm Rather butch. Not a soft one either. An Iron Worker , been building the New York City skyline for over 20 years. I treat my significant other with respect. I honor her for gracing my life with her presence. I ask her opinion on most things , after all she is 50% of the relationship. I'm in the process of reinvevting myself and my surroundings. Trying to quit smoking and changing my diet and remodeling my house . I have drama in my life . Don't lie you do too. We all do so be real with it ----deal with it-I deal with my own. In spite of the drama I am very romantic. .Will get a single to a dozen roses depending on the situation. rose petles on the bed. Light candles Some jazz or Luther . Run a hot bath with some scented oils . A goblet of some white wine . Cook dinner. Teachable -- so teach me your body -- I learn quickly. Honey I'm so into Femms. If you are too I am not for you and you not for me. I wish you the best in life and good luck in your search.