Afternoon to all the gay men of ManPlay out there! I hope you’re all having a good time in the gay chat rooms of ManPlay and I have another topic that I think would make for interesting discussion while on there. I was talking to a friend last night and he has been happily seeing someone for only a few weeks but started to wonder if maybe who he thinks is his new boyfriend might still be seeing others on the side. He was wondering what would be a good way to approach the subject, which got me thinking.
I think the honest and straightforward approach is best. Find a time where you are both in good spirits and enjoying each other’s company and then allude to the fact that you are enjoying seeing him and just come right out and let him know that you aren’t seeing anyone else at the moment and aren’t planning to anytime soon and see how he reacts. If he is honest with you and tells you that he is seeing other people, at the very least you have to respect him for being honest with you and not lying about being exclusive. Remember, if you haven’t broached the subject before this point, there is no reason to think that he has been unfaithful to you at all. Anything has been pretty much fair game up to this point. Remember to try and react in a calm manner, no matter how you really feel. Nothing is going to get accomplished by having your temper flare up or by letting your pride get in the way of what can still turn into a lasting and meaningful relationship. Even if you are suddenly thinking of all the hot boys he could be seeing behind your back, remember that at that moment he is with you and you both have to decide what you want for the future, since nothing is certain when it comes to love – or even lust!
What do you think? Do you have another method that you use to approach the subject? What do you suggest? Let me know and be sure and discuss with other members of ManPlay!