Afternoon to all of the hot gay men using ManPlay out there! I know that everyone has different reasons to go on a dating site like ManPlay. Hopefully most of you are on here because you know that it is the fastest and most convenient way to be connected to literally millions of other hotties from around the world. I know a lot of people have tired of the bar scene, if they were ever into it in the first place, and know that this is a much cheaper method that works way better when it comes to meeting men.

But what about those of you that have been burned in the past by a prior relationship and are looking for a way to meet other men and get your mind off the one that did you wrong? You know you are out there… But what is it that makes you decide to move on and decide that you will never ever be getting back together? For those of you that haven’t listened to the Internet this week, Taylor Swift has a new single called We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together and, as ridiculous as it sounds, it made me start thinking about when you know you’re at the end of your rope in a relationship and you have to decide to end it once and for all. While you might say it’s impossible to ever really be able to say that you won’t get back together with someone, when you fee like you never ever would no matter what, how do you handle things from there? What if he desperately wants you back? Do you attempt to create a friendship or do you completely throw aside any feelings that you used to have and not have him in your life anymore?

Whatever your reasons are for feeling like you would never ever get back together with him, what do you do when you start talking to other hot gay men on ManPlay? Do you mention your past relationship or leave it as information that is best left in the past? If you decide to bring it up at some point, how do you mention it? While I am an advocate for honestly, it’s one situation where it might be good to keep things light on the details. No one wants to be bogged down with a ton of information about the ex of someone you’re seeing. Also, if the relationship ended really poorly (hence never ever wanting to get back together) then it might make it seem like you are not someone who can maintain a relationship with someone after breaking up. I know no one wants to consider the theoretical end of a relationship just as it is taking off, but it is quite important to some people that they believe things wouldn’t likely be too messy if things did take a turn for the worse and the relationship ended. I believe it’s best to keep thing honest but not overly detailed when in a situation like this.

What do you think, men of ManPlay? What is it for you that makes you feel like you would never ever get back together with someone? Let us know and discuss with other members online! Have a fantastic weekend and don’t forget to write and tell us all about your experiences on the site!

John xo

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