Happy Monday to all the hot boys of ManPlay! I hope you all had a fantastic weekend and got together with some hunks from the site. I had two dates myself and they were both fantastic. I definitely think the warmer weather is making people stop hibernating with DVDs and instead going out and spending some time in the sun with a date or two and then exploring new places at night. I had a great time over the weekend and hope you all did too. If you went on a date (or more!) over the weekend and found that your flirting skills left a lot to be desired, I’ve come up with a primer for easy, sexy ways to flirt with your date without making either of you uncomfortable. If you’re already a flirting pro, leave some tips of your own if you have some better ones, but if you could use a little help, read on!

There’s a good trick to get him thinking in a sexy way by dropping suggestive words into everyday conversations. If you are talking about going to a new restaurant, you could pepper your language with words like ‘exciting’ and ‘delicious’, which will subliminally get him thinking about bedroom activities. By mentioning that something is a huge turn-on, you don’t have to be talking about sex moves; instead mention it about something as simple as a cashmere coat. I for one definitely find that a turn-on! It’s also a good idea to get in his space a little bit. This doesn’t mean you have to go and sit on his lap by any means. But little tricks like leaning in a bit more than you might normally or leaning across the table with your hands half extended show him that you are comfortable in your skin and are not afraid of getting close. This might be putting the ball in his court for the next move, but you’ve at least made one quickly and easily that you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable doing. After all, showing that you are comfortable getting close shows that you are ready for more intimate moves. By leaning in or across a table you instantly create a space that is just for you two.

It’s also a smart idea to try out a sexy voice every now and then. I know that might sound ridiculous but try speaking a few lines out loud to yourself or a close gay friend at some point and see how it goes over. By lowering your voice a little and sounding conspiratorial, you can make even the most banal sentence sound instantly sexier. For bonus points, try a small movement like patting his back or touching one of his hands while speaking in this tone and you’ll have his mind in the gutter instantly, even if you’re not talking about anything particularly sexy. Speaking of movements, one of the biggest time-tested flirting techniques involves touching yourself in a subtly sexy way. While talking to him and his eyes are focused on you, draw attention to yourself by casually drawing a finger over one of your arms or casually rustle your hair in a sexy manner. Gay men often are suckers for great hair, so if you’ve got great hair, be sure to flaunt it! A quick running of your fingers through your hair will let him take notice and give him an idea of what your hair could look like the morning after! How’s that for sexy?

These are just a few of the possibilities that exist with tiny flirting techniques that can really get your message across without you feeling like you’re throwing yourself at your date or make him feel like you are coming on too strong. Don’t forget that flirting is supposed to be suggestive, not explicit. By using a few of these tricks over the course of a date that’s going well, you’ll be sending a message (whether he’s aware you’re doing it or not!) that you are interested and hoping for some intimacy on his end. Let’s hope he isn’t a flirting amateur too and can be aggressive with his moves! What do you make of these tips? Are there any that you always use or any that you never use?! Write and let me know what you make of them and tell me if you have any other tips instead that you would suggest. And if you haven’t written to let us know how you’re finding ManPlay, be sure and do so! We love getting feedback from members of the site and are legitimately striving to have every one of you have an excellent time finding all the hot men you want!

John xo

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